I fear failure. Probably more than many. Failure hurts. The fear of it hurts even before we’ve started the thing we’re still afraid of.
But failing is rational. Because trying things, taking action, and yes, failing at our first several attempts, lead to experience. And experience makes us better, stronger, faster, more resilient. Failing in private, practicing in private, is a start. But having the courage to try in public, even if we fail, builds even more muscle memory and reilience.
It’s not always easy, but few things worthwhile ever are. It’s a tough pill to swallow at times, and I need to remind myself often. I might not like it, but failure is rational, and most of us need to do more of it.